July 26, 2020

“Who were you before the world told you who to be?”

Summary:

This sermon highlights a speaker’s transformational journey toward living an authentic life through the lens of their experiences with a Unitarian Universalist congregation. The sermon weaves together personal history, including serving as a surrogate for a gay couple and navigating complex romantic relationships from college through adulthood. Central to the story is the speaker’s realization of their identity as a lesbian, which was sparked by a reunion with a former friend and solidified at a church-hosted concert. The sermon emphasizes how physical and spiritual thresholds, such as the doors of a sanctuary, serve as gateways to self-discovery and communal acceptance. Ultimately, the speaker expresses profound gratitude for a supportive faith community that embraced their true self long before legal protections were established. This account serves as a testament to the power of love, courage, and inclusion in personal evolution.